This weekend I spent a lot of time with people who have no idea what blogging is. Most of them think that photos taken on phones stay on phones, and often confuse instant messaging with text messaging. They are, in a word, pretty normal people.
I used to be one of them (more or less).
To entertain my Comet friends over the course of the weekend I moblogged some of the things I saw. I took time to explain to my non-blogging friends what I was doing and why, although I couldn't talk about or show Comet specifically of course.
None of this felt strange to me. I had my filter set to "things I find interesting that I think my Comet friends will like" and I posted accordingly. It seemed very natural. Everything was fine.
Then something happened: my husband announced to a group of friends over dinner that I was a "blogger." And instantly I rebelled against the characterization. I insisted that I was not a blogger. Sure I have, um, three blogs that I actively maintain, but I AM NOT A BLOGGER. (oh my god, I have 3 blogs. shit, shit shit. does that make me a?...a..no. I can't say it)
Stepping outside of myself, I have to say that I find this reaction pretty interesting. My response is so visceral. So strong, it is akin to being called a Republican.
Now, I know that some of you (all of you?) may be offended at my reaction and for this I am truly sorry. Please don't take it personally. I suspect that what is happening is a demographic thing. I am forty-freaking-two, and I think that part of my problem may be that I am simply too old to be a "blogger." (Oh and by the way, I'm not a diarist or a journalist either.)
So while it is perfectly fine for me to post and send photos to My 3 Blogs (wasn't that a tv show?), I do not want to be referred to as a blogger. How strange is that? This makes me wonder, is this unique to me, or are there others that feel that way?
Would you consider making "Are you a blogger?" a question of the day?